My mom is cheating on my dad with my uncle according to islam what should I do? Should I tell to dad or else I should take care of it ? I have caught them 3 times but they are doing same things. I have warned my uncle but what should I do now the things are same . Should I tell everything to my father or not ? According to islam what is right thing I should inform my dad or not ? I am afraid he will be disheartened he will be hopeless. And he is cardiac patient I can’t give him this must stress. What should I do ? How should i handle this situation.and there is no one whom I care share this thing not even a single family member.
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Assalamu Alaikum,
I can feel how heavy this must be for you. It’s so painful to see someone you love make choices that hurt the family, and it takes a lot of strength to carry this alone.
First, turn to Allah and pour your heart out to Him. Make dua for guidance and wisdom. Since you’ve already tried speaking to your uncle, consider having a gentle, honest talk with your mother. Let her know how this is affecting you, your father, and the family.
Before telling your dad, think carefully about the impact on his health. If there’s hope that your mother may repent and stop, protecting his heart might be best. However, if things don’t change, consider seeking guidance from a trusted elder, who could be someone from your greater family, or a guardian you trust — someone who is wise, understanding, and can provide support.
Remember, this is not your fault. You deserve support too, so reach out if you need someone to talk to. May Allah guide and strengthen you through this trial. You’re not alone.